internal: new shared_ptr and weak_ptr implementation (#5883)

moves std::shared_ptrs to a new implementation

Advantages:
- you can dereference a weak_ptr directly. This will obviously segfault on a nullptr deref if it's expired.
   - this is useful to avoid the .lock() hell where we are 100% sure the pointer _should_ be valid. (and if it isn't, it should throw.)
- weak_ptrs are still valid while the SP is being destroyed.
   - reasoning: while an object (e.g. CWindow) is being destroyed, its `weak_ptr self` should be accessible (the sp is still alive, and so is CWindow), but it's not because by stl it's already expired (to prevent resurrection)
   - this impl solves it differently. w_p is expired, but can still be dereferenced and used. Creating `s_p`s is not possible anymore, though.
   - this is useful in destructors and callbacks.

src/defines.hpp

@@ -3,16 +3,4 @@
 #include "helpers/WLListener.hpp"
 #include "helpers/Color.hpp"
 #include "macros.hpp"
-
-class CWindow;
-class CLayerSurface;
-
-/* Shared pointer to a window */
-typedef SP<CWindow> PHLWINDOW;
-/* Weak pointer to a window */
-typedef WP<CWindow> PHLWINDOWREF;
-
-/* Shared pointer to a layer surface */
-typedef SP<CLayerSurface> PHLLS;
-/* Weak pointer to a layer surface */
-typedef WP<CLayerSurface> PHLLSREF;
+#include "desktop/DesktopTypes.hpp"