internal: new shared_ptr and weak_ptr implementation (#5883)

moves std::shared_ptrs to a new implementation

Advantages:
- you can dereference a weak_ptr directly. This will obviously segfault on a nullptr deref if it's expired.
   - this is useful to avoid the .lock() hell where we are 100% sure the pointer _should_ be valid. (and if it isn't, it should throw.)
- weak_ptrs are still valid while the SP is being destroyed.
   - reasoning: while an object (e.g. CWindow) is being destroyed, its `weak_ptr self` should be accessible (the sp is still alive, and so is CWindow), but it's not because by stl it's already expired (to prevent resurrection)
   - this impl solves it differently. w_p is expired, but can still be dereferenced and used. Creating `s_p`s is not possible anymore, though.
   - this is useful in destructors and callbacks.

src/protocols/XDGOutput.cpp

@@ -53,7 +53,7 @@ void CXDGOutputProtocol::onManagerGetXDGOutput(CZxdgOutputManagerV1* mgr, uint32
 
     const auto  CLIENT = mgr->client();
 
-    CXDGOutput* pXDGOutput = m_vXDGOutputs.emplace_back(std::make_unique<CXDGOutput>(std::make_shared<CZxdgOutputV1>(CLIENT, mgr->version(), id), PMONITOR)).get();
+    CXDGOutput* pXDGOutput = m_vXDGOutputs.emplace_back(std::make_unique<CXDGOutput>(makeShared<CZxdgOutputV1>(CLIENT, mgr->version(), id), PMONITOR)).get();
 #ifndef NO_XWAYLAND
     if (g_pXWaylandManager->m_sWLRXWayland && g_pXWaylandManager->m_sWLRXWayland->server && g_pXWaylandManager->m_sWLRXWayland->server->client == CLIENT)
         pXDGOutput->isXWayland = true;